I am a Pakistani-American writer, born and raised in the 201.
I received a dual Bachelor’s degree in both English and Journalism and Media Studies as well as a Creative Writing certificate from Rutgers University, before going on to get my Master’s in Journalism at Columbia University’ Graduate School of Journalism.
I have been in the lifestyle space since 2019, writing about sex & relationships, health & wellness, culture & identity, and more in major publications including The Cut, Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, TimeOut, HuffPo, and Refinery29.
I’ve built up a network of varied specialists from sexologists to psychologists to help my readers make sense of online discourse through an expert’s lens. I’m also an ABS-certified public information sexologist.
My knowledge and passion for sex and relationships extends from beyond the page to in front of the camera.
I wrote and hosted a two-part series for NowThis on sexual health and wellness, on topics including “sex myths” and “masturbation.”
When I’m not writing, I’m creating programming for newsrooms.
As a previous assistant managing editor for Insider, I led the Fellowship Program, overseeing the recruiting, hiring, and mentoring for 65-80 fellows every six months.
I created a curriculum for their professional development and helped create metrics to assess their success as fellow.
I then went on to create an inaugural fellowship program for The Pivot Fund, a Georgia-based nonprofit aimed at providing funding for BIPOC newsrooms.
Here are some things I've written:
SEX & RELATIONSHIPS
Definitive Examples of Why Men Are the *Worst* at Writing Sex Scenes - Cosmopolitan
I'm A Little Worried, Darling! TradWife Porn Saw A Huge Surge In Search This Year, Here's Why - Betches
Your Guide To Giving Really Good Cunnilingus, According To Sex Experts - PS (formerly POPSUGAR)
How To Take It Up The Butt: A Guide To Painless And Pleasurable Anal Sex - Betches
HEALTH & WELLNESS
For South Asian Women With PCOS, It’s Not Just Symptoms We’re Dealing With - Refinery29
Are the Tweens Taking Over Sephora Too Young for Skincare Products? - VeryWell Health
The Fantasy of TikTok's Healthy Eating Videos - The Cut
Cardi B, You're A Perfect 10! But It's Normal For Someone's Period Blood To Smell - Betches
CULTURE & IDENTITY
For Muslims With Eating Disorders, Ramadan Is Complicated - HuffPo
South Asian Designer Sana Khan-Patel’s New Line “Our Time” Celebrates the Duality of Her Culture - Teen Vogue
For young Muslims, Brooklyn's hottest nightspot is a Yemeni coffee shop - Business Insider
NOTABLE INTERVIEWS
These three women are redefining what solo travel looks like in 2023 - TimeOut
Hilary Duff Tells Us About The New Hobby She Picked Up While Social Distancing - Bustle
Zooey Deschanel Tells Us Her Best Tip For Discovering Yourself While You Travel - Bustle
3 Athletes Competing For The 2020 Olympics Tell Us The Advice They’d Give Their Younger Selves - Bustle
PERSONAL ESSAYS
Why I'm Saying 'Fuck No' To Situationships In 2024 - Betches
Let's Talk About the Hypersexuality That Can Happen After Being Sexually Assaulted - Cosmopolitan
How Mindful Masturbation Got Me Through 2021 - The Cut
My Therapist Told Me to Treat My Emotionally Abusive Relationship Like the Addiction It Is - PS (formerly POPSUGAR)
ECOMMERCE
Trust Me, Sex Pillows Are Absolutely Worth The Price Tag - Betches
5 Vibrating Panties to Add to Your Sex Toy Collection - PS (formerly POPSUGAR)
I Let My Tinder Match Control My Vibrator—Before We Ever Met Up IRL - Cosmopolitan
Send This *Ultimate* Valentine's Day Gift Guide To Your S.O., Trust Me - Betches
CELEBRITY/ENTERTAINMENT
Bianca Censori's Naked Dress At The Grammys May Have Been *Too* Naked - Betches
BEAUTY/STYLE
Want To Achieve Sabrina Carpenter's Blowout From The Grammys? Here's How - Betches
Don't Trust TikTok To Dress You For Work, Try These Office Outfit Formulas Instead - Betches
Skorts Are For Wimps! Gorilla Grip Skirts Are Mini Skirts That Won't Budge - Betches
ON-CAMERA WORK/SCRIPT WRITING
Pillow Talk: Debunking Common Sex Myths - NowThis via YouTube and Instagram
Sex Coded: Touching Yourself - NowThis via YouTube and Instagram
Why you should write a letter to your ex - Cosmopolitan via TikTok